5 Ways to Create Better Sexual Communication With Your Partner
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What Is Fluid Bonding and How Can You Make It a Part of Your Sex Life?
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How Kink Can Be Used to Help Your Mental Health
It’s a common (and messed up) misconception that people who like kink are somehow mentally ill or deranged. This is simply sex-negative nonsense spoon-fed to us by our puritanical culture. BDSM, or bondage, discipline, and sadomasochism, is a perfectly normal thing to be into. All kink is normal, as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult.
Frankly, it’s not really anyone’s business what happens sexually between consenting adults, so I don’t know why we’re so obsessed with trying to police it.
Studies have shown that people who engage in kink are not mentally ill. Most recently, a 2020 study published in the
Courtesy of Kenneth Play
Kenneth Play says he once injured himself from aggressively fingering too many people, but that s the kind of mishap that comes with the territory of being an international sex educator famous among other things for his expertise on female ejaculation.
Play is a so-called sex hacker, which means he s done a lot of experimentation and figured out the easiest ways for people to achieve sexual goals they once deemed out of reach. (See: his excellent advice in our guide to having multiple orgasms.) It s like being a card counter in Vegas, Play says. You beat the odds and have an unfair advantage.