no, it wasn t four times. would you ever have a big wedding? no, i would never, ever. no, never again. women start to think we are so caught up in the fairy tale and the f planning that we forget that we are sewelly marying this guy. he doesn t treat us well and all of that stuff. maybe you deserve to be upset. i am glad you didn t personal lies this at all. you brought up the wedding story. that s why we love you. why do people spend so much on something that really means nothing? i don t think i can answer this question, but i will. i think the city hall weddings are the way to go. that s what i did. in new york city. and then you have to walk across the brooklyn bridge. it is the best thing i ever did. it was w great. you had a kwanza tree and a