was lucky she d never see me again. but they did and married within months. they settled within months in alaska where clay worked on the pipeline. he wasn t as interested in church, not the way she was. she wanted you to be there? yeah, i couldn t meet her there. it is a big issue and i m not sitting here saying it had to be my way or she was wrong. that s not an issue at all. we were different. they divorced in 2000. hot and cold. they lasted ten years that time. yes, that time. full of hope and good will, they tried again in 2006 they remarried, moved to washington state, set ophouse in deer park and from there he commuted to his job in alaska, which meant he to be gone weeks at a time. so when he came home.