Savage Love Live kicks off this Thursday, November 16 at noon PST! Magnum subscribers are invited to join a Zoom meeting with Dan, Nancy and Mean Lesbian Boss to answer your filthy sex questions and to chat with each other. Remember—there's nothing you can't ask. Ask Dan a question for the show here..
1. I'm a 57-year-old guy, married but separated, in reasonable shape. I usually masturbate at night as a “sleeping pill.” Over the past few years, it's gotten more difficult to orgasm. I get hard, I vary my technique, but I just can't come. Sometimes I'm up for hours jerking it before trying to fall asleep. Toys like sleeves sometimes help, but they're messy since they need lube, so that's not my first choice. Any magic.