he sold $250,000 of them for $38,000. he kept the money? and kept the money. of course, rowe split town soon enough. leaving his friend and surrogate father bankrupt. very worst thing that s ever happened to me in my life. i about lost my wife and my family. it s devastating. so, when ron nelson saw the man that ruined his life plastered all over the front of the seattle newspaper under the name of steve heitman, he was eager to tell the world the mystery man s real name. and when evelyn heitman heard that name, something finally clicked. i recognized the name. so i got the yearbooks out. she found him there, jim rowe, a classmate of her long lost son steve. to work his big seattle scheme, the con man had stolen the identity of a dead high school buddy. i don t think he feels bad. doesn t have a conscience? i don t think he does. coming up falling in love with the con man.
steve heitman was just 20 when he drowned, and 25 years later, in wenatchee, washington, his mom still grieves. can anybody who hasn t lost a child understand what it s like? i don t think so. it s a feeling you never ever get over. she was facing another melancholy fourth of july, the anniversary of steve s death, when she came home to find a reporter had left a message on her machine. he says i suspect somebody is using your dead son s identity, so i listened to that message at least three or four times. do you remember how you felt? oh, i mean, just feel like your whole world is been shattered. i mean, how could somebody do that? but there was the story in the seattle paper called the eastside journal. a mystery man set up big businesses with other people s money, lived the high life and skipped town with as much as $1.2 million.
did you trust him? not really. in february 1999, the local newspaper did a business feature on the new ski shop in town. steve heitman was interviewed, and his resume expanded to fill the space provided. she said he served in germany in the army, studied at the university of heidelberg and, of course, was an expert skier from an early age and had worked for the ski-makers atomic and head as a designer and field tester. did you ever see him ski? no. nobody had seen him ski. steve worked his people hard, but the rewards could be huge. for instance, during a big ski show in las vegas, he took six employees to a nascar race by helicopter. that little field trip cost about ten grand. it may seem like a lot to you, but it was nothing to steve heitman. handed me a fanny pack one time, and i go what s in this? he goes, my money. hang on to it.
in seattle, steve heitman opened a chain of ski shops without spending a dime of his own money. he had two microsoft millionaires in the palm of his hand. they even bought into an exotic car dealership. and before long, that business was wallowing in debt, too. and then, one day we were going to meet and ride motorcycles and calling and calling and calling, nope, nobody answers. and what happened to him? disappeared. straight up disappeared. what did you think? i laughed. i just i spent i spent 15 minutes just just laughing. but the microsoft guys weren t laughing. because when heitman skipped town they claim, he took more than $1 million with him. and he left them with two businesses founded with their
soon he and ron nelson and ron nelson s money were going into business together. but there was more than business here. much more. when he left town, i hired a good attorney, and he said my only way out was to file bankruptcy, chapter 7 bankruptcy. i was just devastated. i was, you know, right near suicide. imagine, the kind of man who would steal a dead friend s name, trade on the memory of a dead little boy, all in the service of con games. now imagine being married to him. what do you call a crime to what he did to you? what is that crime called? i don t know why, but the word murder comes into my mind. kimberly met jim rowe even before ron nelson did.