painful moment, shele told her sister it wasn t the backgammon or the fact that rod was it pulling his way that pushed her to separate. it was rod s cheating. believes that he left an email up so she would purposely see it, from another woman. and she confronted him and he said that yes, he slipping around with other women. and he wants an open marriage. he still loves her, but once an open marriage. most women don t want to go along with the open marriage concept. she was one of those who said, absolutely, no. by june, rod had moved out, and he didn t go far. shele arranged for him to live for free in an apartment across the whole, to make it easy for the kids. her close friend stephanie goldman wasn t happy with the arrangement. when shele told me that he was going to be living across the hall, my first instinct was, my goodness, i don t think this
cameras. later, she logged onto her online dating profile at 10:13. the last activity on any of her devices. rod meanwhile, was across the hall. he was usually online playing backgammon late into the night. but suddenly, his online presence stopped at 1:03 am. no sign of him until he popped up that surveillance video in the lobby at 4:13 am. the allegation was that he wanted to be seen on camera yes he wanted to make an alibi. this was like his way of building an alibi. the prosecution called the new york state medical examiner. in the autopsy, he had noticed that there are scratches on her face, and that fractured bone in her neck. my conclusion was that she had and neck compression, i classify the death as a homicide. strangulation not an accidental fall. and in another sinister twist, prosecutors believe that we re in a half years after shele s death, rod drafted an ode composed from her 12-year-old s daughter email account, pretending to be her.
family decided not to have an autopsy performed. my father a lot obviously made the final decision. he went by his rabbi who said, don t do the autopsy. it was only as friends and family gather to sit shiva the jewish period of mourning, that they had time to think about the vibrant woman they just lost. she was an incredibly devoted mother. she was an incredible person. but what was also on their minds was dark and troubling. shele s rocky marriage to rod. she said, he doesn t get a job. he goes to the gym twice a day. and he s just hanging around the house. she was very frustrated. she said, he s driving me crazy. in 2009, shele confessed to her sister that her marriage was in serious trouble. she said, were broken and we just have to part ways. and she cried. she wept to meet. one thing marc and eve said came between the couple was rod s dramatic mood swings. rod has and has always had a violent, explosive temper. he could be sitting very calmly
but then, rod found some emails sent just two days before her death. she reaches out to an attorney, and also tell several people that she wants to change the state said that s one rod snapped, and hatched his plan. the night of december 30th, a friend of melissa feel sorry and send something was wrong. shele was nervous when we first met up and she was looking around quite a bit. i didn t ask her what the problem, whether something was wrong. she was worried that her ex husband was following her. i want to turn out to be her last night alive, shele remained in fear. it was all heavy on her mind when she got home to her apartment at night at 7:51. caught here on security
coming up she had bruising to her lip. chip here to have some scratch marks. and she had bruising to her right hand. and rod said he had put shele s wet body out of the top, so, why wasn t he wet? two officers found this unusual enough to notice. how would you not get wet? when dateline continues. s disease. now, there s skyrizi. things are looking up i ve got symptom relief control of my crohn s means everything to me. control is everything to me. feel significant symptom relief with skyrizi, including less abdominal pain and fewer bowel movements at 4 weeks. skyrizi is the first and only il-23 inhibitor for crohn s that can deliver both clinical remission and endoscopic improvement. the majority of people on skyrizi achieved long lasting remission at 1 year. serious allergic reactions and an increased risk of infections or a lower ability to fight them may occur.