a serious conversation. what they did not ask for was a handout. that s all they wanted. let me explain how that works. if i just had access to more skills. if i had a better education. if you can help me find those opportunities to get a dad, my dad had a sixth grade education. okay. we can rival educations and who had less. let me move the conversation forward because i want to talk about what the president s definitely going to do in the state of the union tonight. as i mentioned, congressmen, farm bill, immigration reform, budget. we ve seen progress in all of these issues despite the president. don t you feel a little dismissed when the president says essentially, i m going to go around you guys? i mean, doesn t it seem like he s working around you instead of trying to work with you? s.e., you left out about probably 90% of his discourse, which was i want to work with congress, but what he said, which you ve blown out of