you can t get in. because i wasn t a relative you know. excuse me. larry wilkins, thank you. you re welcome, sir. i want to bring in now ken druck. he is an expert on traumatic loss and the author of real rules of life. it s really remarkable obviously. everyone is calling it a miracle story, and it appears to be that. how was sailor able to walk away from the plane crash, seek help? was it adrenaline? was it shock? what was it? you know don, it s shock. we re constructed in an amazing way as human beings. and we go into shock. it s the same shock i was in and able to give my own daughter s eulogy 19 years ago. but we go into a state of shock, and it s like we re encased in this numbness and we re able to do things that even later on we can t imagine accomplishing.