phil? i can t imagine a worse environment in which to grow up. well, i have never never had a drink. i think the last time i took a drink was a hot beer in a parking lot in my junior year of high school. that will break you from it. you know, i haven t had a drink you know, a real drink in, you know, 50, 60 years. i decided this is just not for me. your dad eventually stopped drinking and in fact decided to become a psychologist and studied for it, and he did. and then you ended up joining him in practice and my question is did the two of you ever work out what he put you through as a kid. i always tell everybody don t let the sunset on you without saying and doing what you need to say and do with