she skips over the details there is the vision..th young woman came to sandberg. a woman came up to her and said i want to know how you do it. how do you juggle work and d family? sheryl asked the woman why? are you married? she said no. are you close to being married? no. i don t even really have aos boyfriend yet. maybe she was in her 20s. and sheryl was disparaging of that and thought that was basically stupid, to be thinking about how to balance work and family before you re even married. i think it s brilliant. ith actually think mapping out your life based on the fact that you know, if you are someone who wants marriage and motherhood to map out your life according to that being at the center valuefe of your life and working everything else in, including your career around that. to some of the smartest women haveo done that so that they ultimately, by the end of their lives, did, quote, unquote v it ology bigeneralsing their lives and understanding that a woman t life has sea