right. it endorses women s invisibility. like we compress ourselves shall then somehow we re more womanly ,yet moret( pw.úi it s a strange thing they re selling. to kind of take up as little room on the planet as possible, right?t( to have the soft he s voice and the smallest body. you take upe1 as little room in this little space. right. you ll often see male political leaders take up a lot of room at a table. but there s ways in which we teach girls to just compress themselves. especially in my culture, in korean american culture, it s very different. it still remains old world where my family, even though they wanted me to be successful, they wanted me to be successful, they couldn t help mex,nmu1%i it was.cá% in their mind success was marriage. in their mind success was a man. i want to go to exactly this topic. we re talking about young people