out of his marriage. he often told friends that cathy was a poorhouse keeper. but apparently jeff was no better. he called her dirty and yet his truck was filthy. he had more garbage in his truck than you would throw out in the street. i don t know if you would call him a hypocrite or something, but he didn t lave better lifestyle than his wife. the couple separated for a few years, but even after they reconciled, jeff continued to have affairs. cathy tolerated his infidelity, but she didn t like it. i felt very sorry for cathy. i felt very bad because i knew that she loved him very much and i thought she would be very hurt over that. jeff was paying off a $20,000 fine for embezzlement, and a divorce would have left him with even less money to make those payments. jeff had a friend. he had told him that i m not going to lose my stuff and i m not going to give up her life insurance policy. i ll kill her before she