something that s racist and you are like i don t want of that conversation, it s uncomfortable. guess who s going to suffer? it s all the people she s thinking and saying these racist things about. it hurts. and it hurts her too. we need to be peacemakers and not peace keepers. a peace keeper is like somebody who does not want to get in the middle of it. a peacemaker is somebody that enters into the conflict but they do it with the intention of creating peace and understanding. that s why the chapter on embracing healthy conflicts is important because it teaches you how to have these conversations where both sides can walk away and say that was worthwhile. i may not change my mind but it was worthwhile. there are some people who are called high-conflict who just want to fight with you, you don t have to talk to those people. you can actually just say this is not worth my time.
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