it s hard. lots of tears. not a lot of sleep. i m a stay at home mom. i don t get out a lot. i m not an adventurous person. this was a hard enough thing for me to do. reporter: the pattersons have been leans heavily on support from friends here at their church. sarah lee for cnn, virginia. a look at our other top stories right now, senator charles schumer says five airlines are vowing not to charge passengers for carry-on baggage. the nye thai democrat says he personally secured that promise from us airways, delta, jet blue, united and american airlines. two weeks ago spirit airlines became the first in the u.s. to announce plans to pose a $45 fee to store luggage in overhead bins glnchts the death toll following a major earthquake in