has changed is the conversation about the death penalty, and surprising people from all different background, and political and religious backgrounds have come out to speak on her behalf, and made a case to the board, and written the board of par ddons and paros and governor asking her to consider clemency, and that has made a difference, and it is not just me, but there is so many people who have been really convicted themselves by what they have seen happen, and the carrying out of this sentence. many m may i ask you, reverend, because i support everything that you say, but i have is sympathy for the grandparents here, doug gissendaner s parents, and if kelly is going to get clemen circumstances and we will find out soon, what would your words of comfort be to doug s family?