be over it and thinking about what they can do to get ready for next year and make next season better. one last question and i will go on to your book. why is peyton manning such a great quarterback not to take away from russell wilson who went to the university of wisconsin. you know peyton? i do. peyton is a competitor and prepares as well as anybody i have ever been around. it s very very important for him to play well and to be a good teammate and to do all the things that go into winning. i would say for him it s just preparation and hard work more than anything that separates him from his piers. lauren, football is so complicated, so tough, so everything but nothing like a marriage can be. what is the secret? written this brand new book but what would you say if some young person says what s the secret to a long marriage? long and paper marriage? pretty simple. good communication. have to have that communication interaction between husband and wife.