pakistani american lawyer, who went to harvard law school, he was the father of gold star soldier captain hemayun khan hoo who gave his country in service to iraq in 2004 stopping a suicide attack. he s written a book a american family: a memoir of hope and sacrifice khizr khan joins me now. mr. khan what i learned from the book among many other things, you never went looking to insert yourself into this debate. had you given an interview that the clinton campaign had taken note of. a written interview. they came looking for you and you weren t sure whether to participate. we re humble, modest family. we were really, we have never been political, we were enjoying our privacy and our family. that this invitation came. reluctantly. everyone advised us that this is not your cup of tea. don t get involved. our children advised us such. but some middle school and small