Love Needs No Training
-OSHO
Chuang Tzu said, the greatest politeness is free of all formality. Perfect conduct is free of concern. Perfect wisdom is unplanned. Perfect love is without demonstrations.
Perfect sincerity offers no guarantee. But all these perfections need one thing and that is spontaneous awareness; otherwise, you will always have false faces. You can be sincere, but if you have to make any effort to be sincere, then that sincerity is just formal.
You can be loving, but if your love needs effort, it cannot be real. You have been manipulating it. Then even friendship is a business. But love has no knowhow, it cannot have. Love needs no training, and friendship is not something you have to learn.