family, the friends, all those who knew personally grace and barnaby and the person yet to be named. as a parent of three student aged children, oryoung parent of three student aged children, or young people, parent of three student aged children, oryoung people, i cannot but be affected very personally by imagining the extraordinary, and i cannot imagine the grief they are going through, but knowing just how much this affects their future, their whole lives have been devastated by this so we pull together. i have spoken to another faith leaders and as a city, this is a city where we have a really good friendships, partnerships and we are drawing upon one another in that that will continue over the coming days so i draw strength from that and a sense of real community in the city.