There are underlying mental and/or emotional issues that lay at the heart of gender dysphoria . and affirming people’s struggles and delusions is the worst thing we can do.
I am fully aware that some readers of this article will be deeply offended, accusing me of extreme condescension and transphobia. In a word, they would say, "We don't need or want your help or compassion. To the contrary, it's people like you who create problems for us." Yes, I fully expect such reactions, but…