same person. they told us that his organs were starting to shut down and that he was not going to come back. and so we made the decision to remove life support. going through all of that was really, really hard, and it still is. and when they turned off ventilator, then he was gone. and my mom cried in my lap. i hope that i continue to work toward some kind of peace and i know that my husband finds peace in his own way.