gwenyth paltrow. but it does seem to me that what she touches on in that moment is kind of the poverty shaming and the complete unawareness of the difficulty of actually managing full time work and parenting. and the reality that she doesn t seem to know is that in this day and age most people are working two jobs to make ends meet. the restaurant industry is one of the largest employers of women in the united states. these are tipped workers servers, bartenders and runners. they work irregular hours and they are living off tips. the wage has not risen from