In the fourth installment of "Navigating Non-Monogamy," columnist Zachary Zane recalls how neglecting his sex life with his primary partner ended in heartbreak.
When 39-year-old Nate asked his new wife if she wanted to explore polyamory, the answer was a blunt no . The same went for threesomes, sex clubs, and using toys. Thus, Nate felt he had no choice but to fulfil his desires through other means. After an accidental affair two years into his marriage, he decided to look for an intentional one - or two.