burglaries aren t uncommon in walsenburg especially with all the drugs around.d. reporter: then, said the defense, one of the bad guys sar pam and nd he hits pam in the head hardv he s standing there in the kitchen, fire poker in his hand, wondering what to do. wondering what to do. reporter: the robbers must have thought pam and ralph had already left on vacation.h this family was supposed to be gone. that was the talk around town. reporter: so, for the jury it came down to whose story to believe. prosecutors said the police cleared those suspects right back at the beginning. but nothing could clear ralph. and nothing could soften a truly shocking allegation ralph av murdered pam because divorce would get him disfellowshipped,l cast out, from his church. pam wasn t leaving.fr and so he had only one option left.os reporter: if he became a of t widower, he d be free to marry again.er