Dec 12, 2020
Those of us who have never dealt with a substance use disorder have no profound understanding of how it happens or why that loved one can’t get past the need for the substance. But, if or when it happens, we can be a part of their treatment and recovery in a positive, proper way.
Does that person want to talk about their substance use? Probably not when you first bring it up. It’s possible, perhaps likely, that they don’t realize it is a problem. Denial is common. Denial hides the substance use problem and allows it to continue. That person may become angry when you dare to bring up the questions, but they will remember what you said when they are ready to ask you to help them. They will remember if you were angry or patient, accusing or encouraging. They will need your support.