she was the one we feared. did as you were told. if you wanted to do something, you just didn t don t? no, we never did that. never. did want to rock the boat. i was afraid that she was going to leave. thus, it was abandonment kim beard when her mother brought men home. she was all i had. because it was changing all of the time, all of these men were coming into her lives, your life and then go again. you had her. right. anyway, judy stayed put. it was lloyd who would not be sticking around. after her husband seemed to disappear up the base of the earth, judy filed for divorce. what lloyd did and show up at the hearing, judy got everything. kim remembers a rainy afternoon when her mother pond off their wedding ring. she remarried, a man named tom,