like physicians we will huddle often like they would to happenedle the case? and look at the chars and look at mri s. we ll do that, too and for often it is an occasion of personal faith. sometimes we ll say i don t know what to say . help me out here. i find solace sometimesine in consulting with clergy of other faiths and talk to rabbies how are you hanle gretchen: our presbyterian church service my minister said he was inlectual vacant we did the silence and we light a candle for each victim and said prayers and sometimes, saying nothing and just remembering is what you are saying. when we say as a nation say, i don t know what to say, that in itself is a statement and a profound act of faith.