i m just making the point, i think, in this piece we re asking a lot of these people and when they sort of give in to human foibles it shouldn t surprise us. you also i believe it was in your piece i read you talked about the divorce rate among younger, sort of the first and second tours of duties. for first -time marriages, did see 80%? yeah. the military doesn t track divorce rates in a holistic way but i did a story last year on the wounds of this war and divorce is a huge wound to this war. in one year it increased by one percentage point between 9/11 in 2010 but it was 3.06%. if you extrapolate that over a 20-year career, if you were married when you got in, you got plus 60% chance of being divorced by the time you hit 20. one year, 7.8% of females in the military were divorced that single year.