and you re back and you can t even pay the water bill. right. and i m sitting there crying every night listening to our songs, you know, mourning his loss and he s in the south of france. his credit card tally in the south of france alone added up to more than $50,000. since there s no law against disappearing, michelle couldn t really go tohe authorities. it seemed the only people even interested in findinmark weinberger were his creditors. but michelle wouldn t give up. on more than one occasion, michelle flew to europe in hopes of tracking down and confronting her husband. just me and a pair of handcuffs. i brought handcuffs because i figured if he saw me he might, like, be freaked out. i just wanted an explanation. she even came close once, arriving at a paris hotel just a day after weinberger had checked out.