i can still lead by showing the value of my time to my children. you brought up a great point earlier. i think it s important, too, that men shows boys compassion and empathy, that they show that those traits that are associated with being women, that it s okay as a man to do that. i feel sorry for men because nowhere in this society does it tell you that it s okay to express emotion, to cry. we hear that all the time in the sporting circles about any man that cries, you need to suck it up or you need to just accept this behavior. men, unfortunately, bear the brunt of that. it teaches them to be emotionally closed. when we come back, we ll talk about the fact that right now in indianapolis, they are actually taking the measure of a man. i also want to talk about james bond more when we get back. [ slap! ] [ slap! slap! slap! slap! ] ow! ow! [ male announcer ] your favorite foods fighting you? fight back fast with tums.