i did play dumb because when you re a single guy and you have three kids, meeting women isn t always the easiest thing. sometime i would play dumb just to try to this is like the guy with a dog thing. taking puppy to the beach. the kids at the playground. what i found was, girls my age didn t want to go out with me. so i had to readjust and i started focusing on nannies. nannies were the best. they had big nice houses that were empty. refrigerators full of food. i m glad you said houses. and big beds. it was crazy. it was like an hourly hotel that i could actually go to. it was pretty good. don t be uncomfortable. did they like being referred to as girls? when they re your age? who is that? the women you re talking about. no, they don t. generally not good. but again, see, i m not too good with doing things doing thinks politically correct. what is the best sort of