they owe it to the man of the family to look relaxed rested, and attractive at dinnertime. don t monopolize the conversation and go on and on without stopping. and i think this story is the charm of emil more quickly, tell a mother how good the food is. maybe the sister rates a compliment to. and makes them want to continue policing you. that psa from over 70 years ago stressing that women have a place to be seen and not heard, and to constantly be policing the man of the house. hard, passed back to 2022, that is that these men seem to, want to force us into a tie machine and said the dial to the 50s. i have a message for those men, we won t stand on the sidelines. muscles and submissive, put in our place to be seen but not heard. just look at kansas, a state that hasn t voted for a democrat and presidential election, since 1964. they just made their voices heard, loud and clear. and if the misogynistic right
thinking as i watched these pieces, i can t imagine going through this recovery process you went through and not being pessimistic, nasty and resentful. every time it would bring lunch, i d kick everybody out of my room and as i ate, i would cry, i might cuss, yell at god and the devil both, i would get all of that anger or emotion and 30 or 20 minutes i would let everybody back in because it was my responsibly to make them okay look what happened to me. my dad saw me at a young age, was born to be one, your job as a man of the house is to provide and protect. you do it with love. it was my job to make sure those people who love me and they were scared to death what happened if i d be okay, it is my job to make sure they were okay. not to tell you i m awesome, i tell you that because there are
one was in london, one was in canada, and i basically became the man of the house overnight, and very protective of my mother. bryn s daughter pc nicola hughes was one of two officers murdered in 2012 when they were lured to a house and attacked. sometimes ten years feels like ten days and ten hours. ithink. there s so much happened in such a long time, but such a short time as well. and it s hard to. it s hard to put it into words how we how we feel after ten years, because your grief changes. there s times when you feel really proud and there s times when you feel emotional. i think pride is the biggest sense because of what she achieved i in that short term of service. earlier this year, bryn launched a campaign to introduce a medal to honour any emergency service worker killed in the line of duty. nicola, my dad and obviously your dad left a legacy anyway. and if we can leave
9-1-1 center. what is the address of the emergency? yes. hi. the caller, so distraught. to the dispatcher. my name is jeanne ten. i just, i heard an argument and my, my son was, talking to my husband. ma am i cannot understand anything you are saying. does anyone it was gene tan. charlie s mother. you said you heard a shot? yes. does somebody in the house have a gun? now the garbled story was coming into focus. shots fired! the husband, the man of the house was dead. he s already dead. who s already dead? my husband. your who? my husband. are you in a safe spot? yes. we need you to wait outside of the house, for the police officers safety. detective was soon on the route. he still only had a garbled account from that 9-1-1 shot.
person they want to talk to was the man of the house, robert head, nikki s boyfriend. but robert wasn t around. well is the last time you saw robert? yesterday. he left, he came in on sunday. he stayed for a day. he left. here s the thing, robert was a long haul truck driver, which explained his absence. but not where he was. especially when nikki was murdered. we had to find robert and we had to check on his gps. that takes a while, right? yes sir. meanwhile, detective spread out through the neighborhood. knocking on doors. did anyone see anything unusual? a couple a neighbor said they saw a red car in nicky s driveway that afternoon. a car they had never seen before. and a black car as well. they asked the girls. who could ve been there? does your mom have any other friends or anybody else that come over?