First of all, whether you chose to sort of target a very niche group of women when you were writing this book and how and whether you deal with issues of race and class with all of these issues of perfection. Yeah. Its a really good question, and i know its one im going to be getting a lot. The book is largely about white women, women of privilege and straight women. And its that way because thats who i am. And i made the decision early on in writing the book that that was really what, for me, was the only honest route to take. If i had tried to include chapters oh, and this is what its like to be poor and black, i would have had to write a very different book. And so i decided to be what felt honest to me and say, you know, this is the world that ive experienced x it is a very and it is a very elite world, you know . Im not struggling to feed my family, thank goodness. But i think its worth at least conveying these problems even from the iewb rah elite if thats what most of us in this