in journalism, who is this guy and increasingly many in the media are asking who is this guy s girlfriend. let s play some videotape with that in mind. part of the life he left behind involves his long-term girlfriend, lindsay mills, a pole dancer and member of a hawaiian acura battic dance group with her own youtube channel. on her blog that has been taken down, mills called her boyfriend a man of mystery. snowden s girlfriend said she is adrift in a sea of chaos. other than an excuse to show those bathing suit shots of lindsay middle, why should the media focus on a girlfriend who apparently knew nothing about what her boyfriend was up to. i often thought there was the two stories, important stories and interesting stories. the best kind are interesting and important. in this case you ve only got one, it s interesting. people want to know who this person is. to discover that she s a pole dancer, you know, it s mind