explanation as to how lily coffman died. eleanor is the real name, full name, she was 33 at the time, and according to her husband, a prominent real estate developer, andy coffman, he woke up, went to the restroom and found her lying on the floor and not breathing. here s the nine # one tape: reporter: now, the medical examiner for miami-dade county took a year and a half before suggesting this was perhaps a murder because of evidence that he found, of mechanical strangulation. the defense claim was that there was one orange brown