and i think that s. confidence is incredibly important. i spoke to somebody very, - or had lunch with somebody very senior in the labour partyjust to have a chat about. - trying to get a job! but what they said two things that i thought . were very interesting. one was the importance of that moment at the conference - that they genuinely - were worried when they sang the national anthem. nobody had ever sung. the national anthem ever at the labour conference. they handed the words out, apparently. they handed the words out. but even under tony blair, i they didn t sing the national anthem. we used to sing it before we left the hotel, just me and tony together! and then the other, - and the other thing that i thought. in the bathroom mirror! the other thing i thought - was interesting was that they were painfully aware that one key moment in the tory- leadership thing was i when rishi sunak really attacked liz truss. people didn t like a dominating male pushing somebody down. and so i t