Im lovely woman. Im not here to judge. I wish her well. I hope when i call her down there, she tells me everything is great. Come on by. Were actually open. But when you stay behind, if you make a miscalculation, its no longer just about you. There are people that have to save you, and their lives are going to be put on the line. They do it willingly, but youre putting them at risk as well. You know what . Every so often when im like driving, you know, on the fdr, which is here or on the west side, anywhere in manhattan, i look up, and i look for the twin towers because remember they used to be you could figure out where exactly you are. Youd look up, and youd see those twin towers. After all these years, its still stunning to me. I still look up expecting to see those towers. Ive never dealt with anything like that in my life, that kind of loss, being down there that day, seeing everything that happened and in the days and weeks afterwards. Totally changed my life. I got engaged 11 da