british family and you re american and this goes all the way back in history it s an explosion anyway. we have the sort of unconscious thought that we all speak the same language. we do not. so that s the first thing that happened. so someone can come into a room to an american who is british and make a joke that to the british people, they start laughing and to the american would be absolutely outrageous. we don t have the same sense of humor. and i think harry didn t orient her, for one thing. i think he didn t give her an idea of what she was walking into. she was marrying into the royal family not joe blog s down the road. this was going to be high profile, high media, all the way. then she comes in as a woman, she has a lot of stuff she is carrying with her, and she s not being prepared for it. some of us who are a black