it was the one thing that meant everything. everything. and, a full inclusion in the family a full citizenship, no shame, and no no disguise. and wow, yes. it brings me back. and those were amazing days. but i knew we were right. you have got to remember i just felt as long as we kept at it. we nearly had a federal marriage amendment. we had the clintons and bush s against us. this is a long story. so anyway. thank you for having me. thank you for sharing this day with me. it has been wonderful. andrew thank you for being with us tonight. jeff toobin as well. we talked about james obergefeld. he stepped outside the court. departed as a hero to many. including president obama who told him on the steps of the