two or three times a week. and some nights, pam would cook for him, have romantic dinners with candlelight and music. although, kevin says, ron didn t seem to be pam s type. he did not have any money. he was not a socialite. and that s why she generally went for. so what exactly was pams relationship with ron young? and why wouldn t pam cooperate with police? did she want to protect ron? or was she afraid of him? crowley didn t know what to make of it all. and then, about a month after ron young s van was found, the detective happened to read about the car bombing death of gary triano. i was aware that gary was her ex-husband. so that s what prompted me to call into tucson.