Has a major anymore empathetic to the people you work with . That could be a very long answer. I used to think that people cared about me and maybe celebrated the results that i was able to generate because they cared about what i was doing, but i did know the people love me for who i am. And after the news, after i sent my letter to 7500 people 1000 of them wrote to the emails of encouragement and what are you doing next. I have nothing to offer you anymore. I realized for the first time in my life at the age of 31 that i was lovable as a human and as a person, not just as a leader who is generating results. And that love has been transformative and healing in my life. I hate talk about the mistakes i have made but at the same time its liberating to not hide undertake many leaders almost all leaders have done something at some point in their career that it became to light would make them lose their leadership. And most people dont get the liberty, freedom of actually getting to speak