almost 15 years. but certainly attention to detail and security has been a big deal. just to pick up on jaime s last night, you have three different people to eulogize the president today. each will have a complimentary task. but the idea of being a son, remembering our father when they were so formative in your life, such a mentor on so many levels, this is a very tall task even for a president. and i think we ll see that on display today. i think so, too. i can t wait to hear more from the grandkids and of course from president bush memorializing his father. one of the things i was struck by was, you know, women get the question all the time, how do you do it all? how do you balance it all? how can you be a career woman and be a mom? and some people think it s sexist. if president bush 41 were here today, i would ask him that question because how did he how was he able to write handwritten notes to his 17