and if you read the letters, the papers of miss randolph her secretary or the letters you find that nearly every letter that came to the white house upon the death of calvin began, i too lost a boy. that unified her with a great part of the country. but even giver that, ike hoover wrote that they all called her sunshine. she was the extrovert to the introvert. of the marriage. they called him smiley. it was a joke. both of them were very constrained by the fact that they couldn t mourn as they might if they were not the first couple. one of her ways that one way they were covered and demonstrated leadership was they didn t cry in public. it was just a different conception. they did not go on any television show. they didn t talk in that way. she wore white. they got animals. she did many activities with children. both of them. the story that cokie and i what else did she do for herself? she did exercise. you develop ways. she had a secret service man who was in her