marriages in america that millennials are looking at marriage as something that they need to approach cautiously. that s probably a good thing. they are waiting a little bit longer to get married. they are being a little bit more selective about who they marry. steve: they are pickier. while they might be settling down later maybe that s working out for the best. steve: first they are getting an education and trying to do something about their career, trying to get some finances squared away and then they are taking the dive. this sounds very responds cybil. it doecybil. responsible. i got married when i was 23 just out of college it worked out for us. it s different for everyone. but maybe for some millennials who feel like they need to get it together before they actually tie the not, maybe it s good. maybe it s not so much deferred commitment but actually making wise discerning choices. kudos to my fellow millennials. ainsley: i think the generation x parents all got married a