why does it have to be boys and girls? why can t men and women joined the scouts? isn t it age determination. can a 53-year-old man who identifies as a 16-year-old girl join the scouts? there is a guy who identifies as that. you think it s absurd. it s not. dana: it does sound absurd but there is a lot of absurdity happening. juan come i wanted to ask you, especially when it comes to boys education, have we taken so much away from boys that this seems unnecessary? juan: what do you mean? dana: i feel like there s so much attention, and i am for it. my mentoring program, all that, for young women and girls and building their confidence. has it come at the expense of attention for boys questioning juan: it s interesting because i think often times these days boys are without fathers. we see an increase in terms of fatherless children. heavily in the black community