you would no longer be able to pretend? it s not about pretending. the parent knows the gender. it s about not necessarily labeling the baby. it s about allowing the baby to decide what gender that baby wants to be when that baby can decide, which is around 4 years old. so from 0 to 4, tbabe will not e labeled. the baby will be a baby, neither a boy or a girl. what other profound life decisions do we think people ought to be making at the age of 4? are there any others? whether to get a tattoo, whether to get married, enlisting in the military? anything else we think 4-year-olds are ready to decide? this isn t actually a profound life decision. i mean, biologicially there s