the press called stockholm syndrome. there are variables you see across the bored. frankly, there is about four or five that frequently show up. we like to and when i see we, those of us who work in the trenches with these guys and like to call it adaptation process. adaptation process. adaptation process because you adapt to survive and the human spirit is incredibly strong, and the human will to and i get so passionate so excuse me. the human will to live and go through an adverse situation is such an incredible, incredible innate we seen in the holocaust, in any situation, it s a desire to survive. you know, when you talk to jaycee who has taught me this one thing she when we talk about her story and she ll say yeah but what about the prisoner of war or what about nelson mandela, and it s true. we call it adaptation. you have to adapt.