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RACHEL WILKERSON MILLER, HOST: This is NPR s LIFE KIT, and I m Rachel Wilkerson Miller. I m normally over at Vice writing about interpersonal relationships, and today I m here on LIFE KIT to talk about attraction.
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WILKERSON MILLER: Typically, when we talk about attraction, we think about the butterflies we feel, a crush we re eyeing, a longing, whether someone is our type. But attraction isn t just some automatic feeling out of your control. It s something you can question, cultivate and learn from.