we take seriously. if we just drill into this one, i think it will be time well spent. in terms of the ways we get at that, you deal with it on page 244, you cite ida benedetto, the questions she asks in putting an event together. what are the risks, is it worth it and can we handle it with care? i think that that s one of the huge deficits i find in the way that some organizations try to lean into uncomfortable conversations. they want people to assume all this social risk of ripping open a wound and looking at what s inside it, but they are never really clear on what the gift is, what the planned payoff should be if everyone does their part. i love that you chose this quote and this moment from ida benedetto to focus on tonight.