then? i don tgi know. i don t know why she stayed. go out with the guys and go drinking and end up places, but i am not afraid to tell her. i tell her. sometimes you end up in places. well, you know. you know, back in the day. strip joints? i did. i absolutely told her. look, i don t doly that anymore. i am a happily married so you used to lie? no, i told her the whole time. i am telling you there was did you tell her about last night? what? what happened last night? i was a here until 11:00 last night. about you?at it is a great reason, and this is why you marry somebody 18 years older than you. there is none of that. none of that problem. i just don t have enough time to lie and remember what you lied about. e it is actually one of the reasons i created that policy that i don t go to baby showers. i was telling so many lies why i couldn t make it. i finally i just said i will have a blanket policy that i never go andnd it prevents a